Why is it that many of us are scared to use words in intimate moments?
You may think you can break the flow of the connection. Or maybe it is the fear of hurting the other by speaking up, giving them the impression, they are doing it wrong or even of not being enough. Or you don’t speak up because you’re too shy to express your desire, fearing judgment or rejection.
But let us tell you something, there is nothing more sexy than a folk knowing what it is they want to receive and asking for that very thing.
No matter whether you are in an established relationship or are a juicy adventurer, here is a magic phrase for you that you can use to make your expression of your desire more playful and sexy, while also respecting boundaries and making it less scary.
TELL ME HOW MUCH YOU WANT… (i.e. me to kiss your lips)
With this sentence we state our desires and at the same time impose this on our partner. With that we can make them want the very thing we would like to have and at the same time build up anticipation for this to happen.
You can play with it and step into all sorts of energies, stating it from a place of seduction or a space of naughtiness
It is a wonderful ice breaker for everyone facing difficulties in using your words and stepping into the richness and possibilities of our words.
You can take it even deeper into play: once u made ur partner want it so much you can refuse to do it and play with tease and denial.
Tell us….how much you want to learn how to use your words and identify your desires and boundaries in a safer BliXX container?Check out our next xperiences and join us in one of our life changing retreats.
Love and kinky blessings,
Ariane and Beatriz
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