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KNOWING MY NEEDS AND HOW TO COMMUNICATE THEM

Since I, QueenB, started my path of personal growth through the exploration of sacred sexuality, I have transformed into a fully empowered woman who shines into different areas of my life.
Today I want to talk about the number 1 key that has helped this process because I know IT WILL HELP YOU TOO 😏😊sacred sexuality
🔥KNOWING MY NEEDS AND HOW TO COMMUNICATE THEM ⁣🔥

I feel you. You just read that and think “Bummer, I already know that…” but the reality is that most people never arrive to ⁣fully master this skill and this is why many people are still not fully happy with their relational life.⠀

Number 1 pain that our clients, individuals or couples, have in their intimate life is exactly that. Either they don’t know what they like/want or they don’t know how to ask for it.⠀

Due to this, they feel:⠀

😔 a lack of libido on themselves, their partner or both⠀

😑 an inner knowing that there is something else in the sacred sexuality realms but lack of awareness on what is it exactly or/and how to ask for it⠀

😕 they are “high maintenance” or too complicated to please so they stay in the comfort of their unpleasant encounters⠀

😢 unseen in their realness and truth⠀

Not knowing your needs or/and not knowing how to communicate them is the number reason for an unsatisfactory sexual life…⠀

…but what outside of bed? ⠀

Same, same my friend!⠀

Without awareness and communication skills you cannot excel in life. You cannot make deep and real friendships that last, nor can you have the sexual life that makes you shine. Furthermore, you cannot get the job of your dreams.⠀

🍒All the juice in life comes from that exploration of needs and desires & clear communication to get them met by people.🍒⠀

We are relational beings. Your sexual needs, care needs, and also money needs are all met by people.⠀

When we practice intimate communication skills, we are working with the most challenging energy due to all the blocks and shame that humans hold around sacred sexuality. When we master self-knowledge around our needs & desires in bed and learn how to communicate them properly despite the felt shame, guilt, ⁣jealousy, triggers, etc. we get a level of mastery easily transferable to other areas of our lives

In other words, if you manage to deep dive into your darkest needs to understand them and later you go to your partner and ask her to put a collar on you because this is your deeper desire, I promise it is going to be easy for you to go to your boss and ask to be pat of that project you dream of or get that rise you know it will help your family.⠀

Humans live in patterns and the way we do something, we do everything. If you are unable to state your desires before you play, you are unable to state your desires to your boss. Simple. But… once you embody it, YOU HAVE IT.⠀

If you feel like learning about conscious communication in a safe environment, where you are not going to be judged for your needs and desires, talk to us. We are good at building non-judgemental, safer enough spaces for you to get awareness and practice.

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Love and kinky blessings,
Ariane and Beatriz

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