WE haven’t built our society to surrender. There is always something to be in charge for: work, household, relationships…
We are brought up to be doers.
However, it is crucial to balance the responsibilities with letting go if we want the flow of ideas and creativity to be present. That masculine/feminine balance is essential not only for our wellbeing but also to achieve our goals.
In our BliXX Retreats we see many struggling with surrendering.
Here some inspirations for you to add more surrender into your daily life:
- Write down what has led you to relax
A list of activities that has helped you before to fully relax and calm your mind. This can be a massage, some spanking, or a play fight, or maybe it is to receive clear instructions on what you are supposed to do. - Create a conscious container
Sit down with your play partner and share your list above. For each thing on the list go deeper on the details around your needs and set boundaries. - Power Mudra
In our Youtube channel you find BliXX power mudra, a gesture to support u in letting go of control by detaching your power and handing it over to your partner. - Find an affirmation that you can remind yourself to drop in deeper
This can be something like: “I am safe when I fully surrender”.
Come up with the words that resonate most with you in letting go. - Resist the impulse of doing
Whenever you feel to touch back, or to do something breath through the impulse without acting on it. - Be gentle
Remember that cultivating and training surrender is an art, much like developing a muscle. Consequently, maybe today you can let go 20%, and celebrate this as a success. Next time it will be more and deeper so don’t give up, stay connected to your surrender.
Enjoy your devotion to your partner and to yourself!!
And if you don’t have a partner or you have one but you are struggling to get this dynamic going, you can always come to our retreats to practice surrender in a safe container with a safe guidance.
We only have two retreats in 2024:
BliXX Level 1 Retreat: Erotic-Self Awakening for individuals and open couples: 17th-23rd May, the Netherlands.
RISE IN LOVE – Couple´s Retreat by BliXX: 5th-9th June, Barcelona – Last spot
