ABOUT
BliXX allows seekers to expand consciousness, using sexuality as a pathway
We are Ariane Lalakea and Beatriz Bernal and together we are the co-creatrixes of BliXX.
We have both been on the path of self-development and spirituality for more than ten years, each one individually exploring classic and neo-tantra, yoga, massage, movement, breath-work and BDSM.
Our strong background in economics & management coupled with our own respective experiences in corporate life as high-performers in leading international companies in Dubai and Singapore have equipped us with an extraordinary balance of magic and pragmatism as well as a strong understanding of different types of personalities from yogis to CEOs.
We birthed and channel our archetypes PriestessA and QueenB to show-up more powerfully in our work so you may find those names around our website and social media. Priestess A is about transcendence, healing, and ritual into the place. Queen B is about clarity, groundedness, structure and strong leadership.
One of the secrets of BliXX is our unique complementary characters and the deep merge of balanced polarities within. We work amazingly together.
BliXX is a brand and a community around personal growth through conscious sexuality, more specifically around conscious kink.
We funded BliXX in 2018 out of the joined vision of creating sex positive spaces as an improved version of a tantric temple party, where not just “light”, ‘soft’ and ‘tender’ is welcomed, but also ‘dark’ and ‘forbidden’, which is explored in a ritualistic, safer and conscious container.
Why? Things get ‘real’ in such spaces. Conscious power exchanges, communication around consent, boundaries and desires, management of rejections or the establishment of vulnerable connections, are no longer workshop-related concepts but, instead, real life situations that push us towards integration and embodiment.
Today, BliXX has touched more than 1000 beings in our xperiences, workshops and retreats all around the world. Throughout the years our desire to TO HELP PEOPLE TO TRANSFORM SHAME AND DOMESTICATION INTO WILDERNESS, FREEDOM, AUTHENTICITY, LOVE AND POWER has been reinforced and the power and depth of the spaces we create has multiplied.
BliXX is focused on deep transformational work and henceforth we are offering longer containers to work with us; one-on-one online coaching packages and week-long retreats for individuals and couples.
Sexual energy (AKA Kundalini or Chi or Life Force) isn’t purely about the sex centre: it’s what brings us on this planet, it sits at the base of our power, and it is the source of our creativity and our vitality.
SEXUALITY IS HOLISTIC. It is about intimacy, vulnerability, healing and connection to body, mind and spirit of ourselves and the other(s). It is about mastering our ‘chi’ or life force, moving it through our bodies and, ultimately, transmutting it into refined energy for manifestation purposes.
Furthermore, sexuality is about reading the energy of the person we have in front and knowing how to polarise this energy in order to create harmony, to dominate a situation or to create sexual attraction.
Our cultural and religious background, our family imprints and childhood traumas, our lifestyle and any other aspect of who we are, will reflect in our unique sexual expression. It is only by observing our patterns in intimate encounters, or going into sexual interactions consciously, that healing and self-growth can emerge.
We bring consciousness, sacredness and sexuality into the same ritualized and safe space with the intention of becoming more integrated beings. This comes with huge benefits, such as increased strength and personal power, and healthier, more intimate relationships through the expansion of love for one’s self and for others.
THE STORY OF
From all the personal development workshops, retreats and trainings we experienced till and participated in till 2018, it was conscious sex parties that have had the most profound and significant impact in both of us.
Why? Things get ‘real’ in such spaces. Conscious power exchanges, communication around consent, boundaries and desires, management of rejections or the establishment of vulnerable connections, are no longer workshop-related concepts but, instead, real life situations that push us towards integration and embodiment.
THE GENESIS OF THE UNION
We met on a tantric temple weekend in Berlin in June 2018. It was, to use a cliché, love at first sight: we were both in search for a ‘partner in crime’ with whom we could create an improved version of a temple party, where not just ‘soft’ and ‘tender’ is welcomed, but also ‘dark’ and ‘forbidden’, which is explored in a longer-than-usual, ritualistic, safe and conscious container.
We felt the synergy of our complementary energies and skills, and realized that a manifestation was about to happen. Just two weeks later, the first conscious kink xperience took place, our maiden BliXX Journey that we celebrated in our Sacred Dungeon in Berlin.
THE EVOLUTION OF THE VISION
Our offerings started to expand and evolve – BliXX Journeys in silence, BliXX Journeys for female identified beings only, workshops in conscious kink, blindfolded sensual journeys, conscious kink retreats and private domination services for VIP’s started to become a reality and, crucially, a success.
Our locations expanded as well. We moved to the tropics, which enabled us to raise the temperature (in every sense) and the level of consciousness with our never-seen-before xperiences.
Amsterdam, Vienna, Prague, Berlin and Koh Phangan have been, till now, our play spots.
DEMAND FOR OUR SERVICES
Once our BliXXstars began to share with others the highlighted xperiences they enjoyed, we started to get invitations to share our work in remarked conscious sexuality festivals and opportunities to run our journeys, workshops and private sessions in the main capitals of Europe.
Our capabilities expanded as well; coaching tranings, trauma awareness courses, somatic embodiment tools to creater even deeper and ever safer spaces.
We are aligned with our purpose and committed to each other and to a cause much bigger than ourselves: TO HELP PEOPLE TO TRANSFORM SHAME AND DOMESTICATION INTO WILDERNESS, FREEDOM, AUTHENTICITY, LOVE AND POWER.
OUR CORE VALUES
RADICAL ACCEPTANCE
We are all manifestations of the Divine Consciousness, and therefore perfect and sacred. All forms of expressions, emotions and desires are welcome, embodied and celebrated in our spaces as soon as they are consensual.
If we find ourselves judging others, we transform our judgments into an opportunity for self-inquiry by asking ourselves if this sacred expression is triggering us because we have not yet realised this part in ourselves, or whether this judgment comes from a space of jealousy or trauma.
We learn to embrace reality as it is.
SELF-RESPONSABILITY
We create a field of self-empowered and self-responsable beings. We encourage people to take care of themselves and ask for whatever they need.
This creates a space for you to grow in your responsability and empowerment.
CONSENSUAL INTIMACY
We use the power of our words to express desires, state boundaries and find consent for intimate encounters.
Everything consensual is permitted in the space so everybody feels seen, respected and safe to xplore
COMMUNITY
We use community; – as a mirror to see our triggers – to witness other possibilities of sexpression – to ask for what we need as a group – to be seen in the truth of who we are which comes with an integration of previously disowned parts of ourselves.